How many weeks/months am I?
We measure pregnancy from the first day of your last period. There are
40 weeks in the average pregnancy, with the assumption that you conceived
2 weeks after your period started (you are only actually pregnant for the
last 38 of the 40 weeks). When counting in months, start from the conception
date, not the period date. So, if you are 10 weeks pregnant you got pregnant
8 weeks, or 2 months ago. If you did not get pregnant at the average time
(you ovulated earlier or later than the 14th day), your due date will be based
on the measurements from your first ultrasound.
We also commonly talk about “trimesters” (or thirds) of the pregnancy. The first
trimester includes up to 13 weeks, the second trimester is 13-26 weeks, and
the third trimester is 26 weeks until delivery.
When should I tell people that I am pregnant?
About 15% of diagnosed pregnancies end in miscarriage. The good news is
that 85% don’t. In most cases of miscarriage the embryo stops growing
before the cardiac system is developed, and we never see a heartbeat on
ultrasound. Once we see a heartbeat, the risk of miscarriage is much lower. If
the baby has a heartbeat after 8 weeks from the last period, the risk of
miscarriage is less than 5%. After 12 weeks, the risk is less than 1%. Many
patients choose to wait to tell others about the pregnancy based on these
statistics. This is a personal choice which depends on how you would feel
about others knowing that you had a miscarriage, if this should occur.
What/how much should I eat during pregnancy?
We need an average of only 300 extra calories daily during pregnancy (one
bagel or ½ a deli sandwich). “Eating for two” will result in excessive weight
gain. Most women will lose only 15-20 pounds in the first few weeks postpartum,
with the rest stored as fat, so weight gain of 20-30 pounds is ideal (0-5
pounds in the first 12 weeks, and ½ pound-1 pound a week after that). Eat
small frequent meals to avoid heartburn and hypoglycemia. Eat what you
enjoy, but make healthy choices and go easy on sugars and starches to
prevent excessive weight gain and gestational diabetes.
Certain fish accumulate high levels of mercury from swimming in polluted
waters. The FDA recommends avoiding those fish that are highest in mercury,
including shark, tilefish, swordfish and king mackerel. Shellfish, shrimp
and smaller fish such as snapper, catfish and salmon are lower in mercury, and
up to 12 ounces a week is recommended. Canned tuna is low in mercury and can be
included in the total of 12 ounces a week. Tuna steak is higher in mercury than
canned tuna, and should be limited to 6 ounces a week. (If you would like more
information on fish in pregnancy, go to
www.epa.gov/waterscience/fishadvice/advice.html).
Unpasteurized cheeses and deli meats can carry Listeria, a bacterium that
can cause miscarriage and fetal infection. While this is extremely uncommon
in the USA, it is wise to avoid regular intake of unpasteurized dairy products
or deli meats for this reason. Listeria is killed by high temperatures so
deli meats heated in the microwave until steaming are certainly safe. Highly
processed meats such as hotdogs contain chemicals that are not healthy for
any humans, pregnant or not. While there is no evidence of direct fetal harm
caused by eating hotdogs or other highly processed meats, we recommend making
healthier choices except on rare occasions.
Raw fish and meat can carry parasites and other microbes that could cause
potential harm to the mother and fetus. While these infections are extremely rare,
it is wise to avoid raw meat and fish for this reason.
There is no safe limit of alcohol in pregnancy. Complete avoidance is the best
policy. Caffeine is safe in small quantities (1-2 caffeinated beverages daily).
There is no scientific evidence that nutrasweet (aspartame) or other sugar substitutes
are harmful in pregnancy.
Can I exercise?
Staying active is great for you and the baby. If you have an uncomplicated pregnancy
you can continue your current exercise regimen with a few modifications. When doing
cardiovascular exercise (walking, running, biking, elliptical trainer) a good guideline
is to keep your heart rate at a maximum of about 140 beats per minute. This will
allow blood flow to go to the uterus as well as your large muscles. If you are
working out with weights, modify exercises that require you to be flat on your
back or flat on your stomach after 12 weeks. Cut out abdominal exercises, they
won’t be effective.
If you are not a regular exerciser, walk for 20-30 minutes 3-5 times a week, and
consider a prenatal yoga or pilates class (we can recommend one).
Occasionally complications such as bleeding, preterm labor or high blood pressure
will prevent you from being able to exercise, but for most women regular exercise
is a great way to prevent excessive weight gain, reduce stress, and keep the
physical strength necessary to deliver and take care of a new baby.
What about sex?
Sex is safe in pregnancy unless you have complications such as bleeding, preterm
contractions or a low-lying placenta. While sex may make you have mild contractions, it
will not make an otherwise healthy pregnant woman go into premature labor. Unless we
tell you otherwise, continue your normal sexual practices if you want to.
Can I get my hair colored?
Hair color is absolutely safe during pregnancy. The portion of hair that is outside
of the scalp is dead tissue and does not absorb anything into the bloodstream.
Can I paint my baby’s room?
Inhaling volatile paint fumes is not good for any human, pregnant or not. While
normal casual exposure to paint does not cause birth defects, use good judgment
if you are painting and make sure the room is well ventilated.
Can I take a bath?
Exposure to very high temperatures (more than 103 degrees F) for long periods
of time in baths, hot tubs or saunas can increase the risk of spina bifida
during the first 2 months of pregnancy. Normal temperature baths (98-101 degrees)
are safe and can be very relaxing. If you are concerned, put a thermometer in your bathtub.
Can I travel?
If you have an uncomplicated pregnancy it is safe to travel until you are
likely to go into labor. We generally recommend staying close to home
after 36 weeks, and not leaving the country in the third trimester (after
26-28 weeks) unless absolutely necessary. Flying is safe in pregnancy but
may increase your risk for blood clots, so wear support hose on long flights
and move about the cabin once an hour. With long road trips make frequent rest
stops to stretch your legs and maintain circulation.
What if I have a cat?
Outdoor cats can be exposed to Toxoplasmosis and can pass this parasite to
humans through the feces. One could acquire it by changing the litter box
of an infected cat. If your cat goes outside, have someone else change the
litter box when you are pregnant, or wear gloves and wash your hands well. If
your cat lives inside and only eats processed cat food she cannot get the
disease. Cuddling your cat is safe and will not expose you to the disease. Dogs
are not affected. Toxoplasmosis can be harmful to a developing fetus but is
very rarely seen in the USA.
Which vitamins/supplements should I take?
Folic acid is a B vitamin that has been shown to reduce the risk of spina
bifida. 1 mg (1000 micrograms) is recommended during the month prior to
pregnancy and for the first 2 months after conception to reduce this risk. More
folic acid may be recommended if you have a personal or family history of
spina bifida including a prior affected child.
A prenatal vitamin is a general multivitamin with 800-1000 micrograms of
folic acid, as well as calcium and iron. Most women continue their vitamins
after the second month to help reduce anemia and make up for any imperfections
in diet. If you are not anemic and eat a well balanced diet, stopping prenatal
vitamins at 2 months of pregnancy is acceptable.
After 12 weeks the baby begins to make bone and will draw the necessary calcium
from your bones. To prevent bone loss 1000-1500 mg of calcium is recommended. This
equates to 4-5 servings of milk, yogurt or dairy. Since this is difficult to
consume, take a calcium supplement (usually 500-600 mg) to make up the difference. Don’t
take calcium and iron (in the multivitamin) at the same time as they can offset each
other’s absorption. While calcium citrate (“Citracal”) is the best absorbed, other
types of calcium such as fruit flavored “Tums” and “Viactiv” (chocolate flavored) may
be more appealing.
If you eat fish 3 times weekly you are getting plenty of Omega-3 fatty acids, or
Essential Fatty Acids (EFAs). If not, take a supplement containing 200mg of DHA (from
fish oil or flax seed oil). There is a growing body of evidence that EFA deficiency
may contribute to a number of pregnancy complications including preterm labor and
pre-eclampsia. EFAs may help fetal eye and brain development, may improve mom’s skin,
hair and nails and are also passed into the breast milk.
What medications can I take?
Please refer to our medication list to see safe choices for medications in
pregnancy. If you need a medication that is not on the list please call us
during business hours for advice.
Do I have to lie/sleep on my left side?
When we lay on our back the large blood vessels that run close to our spine can be
compressed by the pregnant uterus. In the third trimester this can decrease blood flow
to the baby. At the same time, blood flow to your head will be decreased and you may feel
dizzy and lightheaded. While there is no evidence that lying on your back sometimes is
harmful, blood flow to the baby will be maximized if you tilt your abdomen even slightly
to the left or the right. Assuming you have a normal healthy heart, either the right side
or the left is fine. Before the third trimester most women can lie comfortably on their
back as blood flow is not significantly affected.
Should I have the baby tested for Down’s syndrome and other diseases?
Testing your baby for disease prior to birth is a personal choice. Depending on your
age, family history and race you may be at higher risk of having a baby with a certain
disease. Caucasians are more likely than people of other races to carry the gene for
cystic fibrosis, for example. African Americans are more likely to carry the gene for
sickle cell disease, and people of European Jewish ancestry are more likely to carry
the gene for Tay Sach’s disease. Blood tests can be done to see if you carry the genes
for any of these diseases, to help establish whether the baby may be affected.
Down’s syndrome (an extra chromosome 21) is a form of mental retardation. While
it can happen to anyone’s baby, the chance increases as the mother gets older. At
35, the risk of having a baby with Down’s syndrome or other chromosomal disorders
is about 1/200, and at 40 is about 1/50. Women who are 35 or older may opt to have
an amniocentesis (fluid is withdrawn from the amniotic sac and is tested for the
number of chromosomes) to have a definite diagnosis. Other non-invasive tests are
also available but are not 100 % accurate. These include 1st trimester ultrasound
along with a blood test for multiple markers which can detect more than 85% of
Down’s syndrome (“Ultrascreen”), and a blood test alone at 16-20 weeks that detects
about 75% of Down’s syndrome (“Quadscreen”). Women of any age may choose to do
these non-invasive tests. Some patients opt not to test at all, because the results
would not change their feelings about the pregnancy. While there is no right or wrong
answer your doctor will help you to navigate these decisions at the appropriate time.
Is ultrasound safe?
Obstetric ultrasound has been extensively studied and found to be safe for the
baby. While no fetal harm has been found, current recommendations are to limit
the use of ultrasound to that which is medically useful or necessary. In our
office this includes a quick ultrasound at most visits in the first 20 weeks
to confirm viability and establish gender, a detailed ultrasound at 20-22 weeks
to assess the baby’s anatomy in detail, and only any medically necessary ultrasounds
later in pregnancy. (Most people don’t need another ultrasound after 20-22 weeks). Because
they are not medically useful, some people have criticized “4-D” ultrasounds, which
are commonly done at 28-32 weeks to get a picture of the baby. Since there is no
evidence of harm, we are happy to recommend a 4-D ultrasound for you.
Can I go to the dentist?
Routine dental work is safe during pregnancy and we encourage you to keep up
with your normal dental health routine. Most dentists will require a note
from us saying that the visit is safe, and we can give you a standardized
letter to take to your visit. If you need extensive dental work we can discuss
the best options for medications with your dentist.
Where will I deliver?
We deliver at Memorial Hermann Hospital in the Texas Medical Center. MHH has
a state-of-the-art labor and delivery facility and is adjacent to our offices. Anesthesia
and neonatology services are in house 24 hours a day, and all rooms are large and
private with private bathrooms. Memorial Children’s Hospital is in the same building
as labor and delivery, and has the highest level nursery including a neonatal
intensive care unit. The hospital encourages “rooming in” so that you are not
separated from your baby, and a lactation consultant is on staff to assist you after delivery.
How do I register at the hospital and take a tour?
You can register online at
www.memorialhermann.org, or
simply walk across the street
from our offices to labor and delivery during business hours. Make sure you are
registered a month before your due date. Registration takes a few minutes, and a nurse
will usually have time to give you a quick tour. You can also schedule a formal tour by
calling (713) 222-CARE. The schedule for tours can be found at
www.memorialhermann.org (in the “classes and events” section).
When will I deliver?
Most people deliver close to their due date (40 weeks from the last period). About 10%
of women deliver before 37 weeks. It is more likely that you will go over your due date
in the first pregnancy than in subsequent pregnancies. While it is sometimes safe to go
as long as 2 weeks over the due date, we generally recommend induction at 41 weeks. If
you have had a preterm (less than 37 weeks) delivery before, you are more likely to
have another preterm delivery.
If you are planning a C-section, we generally will schedule it at about 39 weeks or
37 weeks if you have twins.
Who will deliver me?
Our doctors share a call schedule for nights and weekends. If you deliver during
the day, your own doctor will generally be there. If you deliver at night or in
the weekend, the doctor on call will be there. Our doctors do not share call with
any other doctors, so a stranger will not deliver you. You will have an opportunity
to meet the other doctors in the group before your delivery. If you would like to
be sure that your own doctor delivers you, she may offer induction at full
term (usually around 39 weeks) on a day that she is on call.
How long will I stay in the hospital?
After an uncomplicated vaginal delivery you can stay 24-48 hours. After an
uncomplicated C-section you may be ready to leave as soon as 48 hours, or as
long as 96 hours. We see most of our patients 2 weeks after a C-section and
6 weeks after a vaginal delivery.
Who will my baby’s doctor be?
You will need a pediatrician with privileges at Memorial Hermann to see your
baby before discharge. If you do not have one already we will recommend some
excellent doctors for you to consider (look at the online form called “referral list”). Some
patients like to meet and interview the doctor before delivery, or you may be
comfortable meeting the doctor when he/she comes to see your baby in the
hospital. After discharge, the first visits with the pediatrician are usually
at 2 weeks of life, and you can make this appointment as soon as the baby is
born.
Should I take a childbirth class?
If this is your first baby you may want to take a childbirth class. While this
is not required it may help you to be more comfortable about what to expect. Most
people take a class in the last 2-3 months of pregnancy. The hospital has a very
good basic childbirth class that you can schedule by calling (713) 222-CARE. The
class schedule is available at
www.memorialhermann.org (in
the “classes and events” section, look for “prepared childbirth” classes).
Should I get an epidural?
This is a personal choice, but in our practice the great majority of patients do
opt for an epidural. Epidurals are a very safe and effective means of controlling
the pain associated with childbirth. Complications from an epidural are extremely
rare and often easily corrected (such as a severe headache). You do not have to make
any arrangements for an epidural prior to your delivery day. Anesthesiologists are
available 24 hours a day to help you whenever you request their services.
Do I need a birth plan?
Some patients like to write a “wish list” of events that they hope to happen at
the birth of their baby. While forming a written birth plan is optional, we
generally do not recommend it. Instead we feel that it is important to discuss
your wishes with your physician so that she can make the other doctors in the
practice aware if you have special requests, and to convey your wishes to the
nursing staff at the hospital. We do our best to adhere to your plan within the
boundaries of safety, knowing that the labor process is very dynamic and unpredictable,
and unplanned events happen frequently. An important part of forming a birth plan
is accepting that it may change, and allowing your doctor to make the best decisions
for you and your baby at all times during the labor process.
What is my doctor’s C-section rate?
We pride ourselves on having a lower C-section rate than the national average
of 30%, and think it is largely because we believe that patience is of the utmost
importance when managing labor, and that each woman labors at her own speed. We
do not place rigorous time limits on your labor and make all safe, reasonable efforts
to avoid unnecessary C-sections. Our overall C-section rate is about 25%, with the
majority of these deliveries representing repeat C-sections. If this is your first
baby, your chance of C-section is only about 10%. In our practice, if your first
pregnancy results in a C-section, there was no safe alternative.
Can I deliver vaginally after a C-section?
Vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC) is not offered in our practice. There is a
1% risk that when a mother is in labor with a C-section scar on the uterus, the
scar could open up and expel the baby and the placenta into the mother’s abdomen. This
is called a uterine rupture and is a catastrophic emergency which can result in the
death or permanent disability of the baby, as well as serious complications for the
mother including severe blood loss and hysterectomy. As mothers ourselves we believe
that a 1% risk is too high when it comes to a baby’s safety. After all, we go to
enormous lengths to prevent much rarer events such as injury in a car accident (using
car seats) or exposure to life threatening illnesses (getting vaccinations), for example.
Will I get induced?
We cannot predict when a patient will have a medical need to be induced, such as
high blood pressure, poor fetal growth, low amniotic fluid, or being more than a
week past your due date. Your doctor will explain in detail why induction of labor
is necessary if this should occur. The decision to induce labor is the result of a
complex set of decisions, the end-point of which is that the mother’s and/or baby’s
health will be better with the baby on the outside than the inside. If we recommend a
medically necessary induction we expect your full cooperation even if induction was
not your desire.
Some patients may choose an “elective” induction which is not medically necessary
but is timed to provide convenience for family members, work schedules, or to
coincide with your doctor’s schedule. Elective inductions are scheduled at
around 39 weeks.
Will I have an episiotomy?
There is no evidence that routine episiotomies are beneficial, and we try to
avoid them. At times your doctor may decide that it is safer to make a small
episiotomy than to risk a large tear, but this decision is not made until the baby’s
head is partially delivered. There are variable factors that we cannot control
including the size of the baby and your body’s ability to stretch, which ultimately
affect your ability to deliver without an episiotomy. It is less likely that you will
have an episiotomy with each successive pregnancy.
Should I have my baby boy circumcised?
The American Academy of Pediatrics does not recommend circumcision for any
medical reason. Still, many couples opt to have their baby boy circumcised for
religious, cultural or cosmetic reasons. If you decide to have your baby circumcised
our doctors perform the procedure with local anesthesia, usually on the day
after birth.
Should I collect my baby’s cord blood?
Blood from your baby’s umbilical cord contains stem cells, which may be collected
and stored after the baby’s birth. Stem cells have numerous current and possible
future medical uses that warrant consideration. At present there is no public
banking system but you can pay a private company to store it for you. If you are
interested in cord blood collection, visit the websites of Cord Blood
Registry (
www.cordblood.com) and Viacord (
www.viacord.com) to learn
more. We can give you the necessary collection kits in our office if you
decide to proceed.
How do I prepare for breastfeeding?
In our experience the best breastfeeding class comes when you have your baby
in your arms. While physically preparing the breasts is unnecessary, you may
want to mentally prepare by taking a breastfeeding class, which can be scheduled
through (713) 222-CARE. Most of our patients have found that the lactation
consultant in the hospital can get you off to a good start without any other
preparation. If you need help after the baby is born we can recommend a lactation
consultant which can be arranged at home or at a location such as The Motherhood
Center or a woman’s work. Information can be found at their websites at
www.motherhoodcenter.com or
www.awomanswork.com. Also, our doctors have
a “standing prescription” at a woman’s work which will allow you to purchase
some breastfeeding supplies tax-free.
When should I call the doctor? How do I contact my doctor in an emergency?
If you have a true emergency that cannot wait until the office reopens (if
you are in labor, for example) our office number will prompt you to connect
to an operator who will page the doctor on call. While we are always available
in emergencies, we ask you to use your judgment and not disturb the doctors after
hours with matters that can be dealt with the next business day.
Examples of reasons to call the emergency line (24 hours) in the first and second
trimester include vaginal bleeding that is more than spotting, persistent cramping,
any severe pain, fever higher than 101.0 F, or vomiting that is preventing fluid
intake for more than 24 hours.
Examples of reasons to call the emergency line (24 hours) in the third trimester
include leaking amniotic fluid (a persistent trickle or gush of watery fluid),
vaginal bleeding that is more than spotting, decreased or absent fetal movement
(at rest, you should feel at least 4 small movements in an hour), or regular,
painful contractions. If you are 36 weeks or more, you have not had a C-section
before, and your doctor is planning a vaginal delivery, call us when your
contractions have been 5 minutes apart or less for at least an hour. If you are
worried or not sure if you are in labor, it is always best to call. If you feel
that you need to go to the hospital at any time, please call us first so that
the doctor on call can advise you and let the hospital know that you are coming.
How does my insurance work?
Since every insurance plan is different, it is important that you understand the
way your policy works. Before your first visit our staff will check on your
benefits and will be able to explain this to you when you arrive. Most insurance
companies pay us for the prenatal care (about 13 visits) as well as the delivery
in one lump sum after you deliver. Usually you will have one co-pay for the whole
package (the “global fee”). If you have visits that are not related to normal
prenatal care, these will be additional charges to your insurance and will have
additional co-pays. Tests such as ultrasounds are billed separately and have separate
co-pays. Most policies have a deductible or patient portion that you will be asked
to pay before you deliver. The hospital will bill your insurance separately, as
will other doctors at the hospital including the anesthesiologist and pediatrician. We
have a lab in our office but this is an independent business entity that will bill
your insurance separately.
Remember that your doctors are medical experts, not insurance experts. Please direct
your insurance and billing questions to the front desk staff, not to your doctor.
What can I expect at my appointments?
If you have a normal pregnancy your scheduled visits will be monthly until 30 weeks,
then every 2 weeks until 36 weeks, then weekly until delivery. At each visit we
will record your weight and blood pressure, check your urine, listen to the baby’s
heartbeat and assess the baby’s growth.
Drs. Hardwick-Smith, Jurney and Beard have Nurse Practitioners who are advanced
level nurses with Masters Degrees in Women’s Health and many years of experience
in obstetrics. The Nurse Practitioner will see you at your first visit to perform
a thorough health assessment, gather information and perform an initial ultrasound. She
will also see you at several visits during the pregnancy and at times when your doctor
is unavailable or is running late. Some appointments will include specific events
as follows:
1st visit- 6-12 weeks from last period: A pelvic exam
and pap smear will be done as well as tests for vaginal infection. A standard panel
of blood tests will be done to check your blood type, blood count, immunity to Rubella,
as well as tests for exposure to HIV, hepatitis and syphilis. An ultrasound will be
done to confirm your due date and check for viability. First trimester screening
for Down’s syndrome and other chromosomal abnormalities (“Ultrascreen”) will be
offered. Other necessary tests based on your individual health assessment will be done.
2nd visit- Another ultrasound may be performed to confirm viability.
16-20 weeks from last period. Another quick ultrasound
may be performed to see the sex of your baby, if you want to know.
An alpha-fetoprotein (AFP) test for spina bifida will be offered. If you are
having an amniocentesis it will be scheduled at about 16 weeks. A detailed
ultrasound of the baby’s anatomy will be scheduled as a separate appointment
between 20-22 weeks.
24-28 weeks- testing for gestational diabetes
will be done. You will be given a sweet drink and your blood will be drawn an hour
later to screen for diabetes. If your first test is high you will be asked to do
a second test that takes 3 hours. If your blood type is RH negative you will
receive a shot of Rhogam at about 28 weeks. At this time we will begin reminding you
to register at the hospital, sign up for a childbirth class if desired, choose a
pediatrician, and consider issues such as cord blood banking and circumcision.
36-40 weeks- testing for GBS (group B strep) will be
done with a vaginal/anal swab. GBS is a harmless bacterium that many people carry
without symptoms, but can rarely lead to a serious neonatal infection. If you are
a carrier we will give you antibiotics when you are in labor to prevent neonatal
infection. Your cervix will be checked weekly for dilation and effacement, and to
make sure the baby’s head is down. If you haven’t met all the doctors in the
practice, you will be given an opportunity to do this before you deliver if you wish to.
We do our best to be on time but occasionally the doctors are delayed at the hospital
with deliveries or surgery. Bring a book to your appointments, as we cannot predict
when this may happen. We will do our best to inform you of the delay, if there is
one. If you have no problems sometimes it may suffice to see the nurse, nurse
practitioner or PA, who can relay any questions to your doctor when she returns.
Where do the beautiful baby pictures in our waiting room and hallways come from?
These photographs are by Kristi Zontini with Bellababies Photography
at
www.bellababiesphotography.com. Bellababies specializes in photographing
pregnant mothers, babies, children, and families and has become the personal
family photographer of many of our patients as well as our doctors.
What if I have other questions?
Since you are seen frequently, write your questions down and bring them to
your next appointment. If you have more urgent questions, leave a message
with your doctor’s nurse and you will get a reply by the end of the business day.
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